Crazy Girls Rant II (original post date 8/26/09)

So I come to you all again to talk to you about crazy girls cause for some reason one blog was just not enough... at least not for me. The topic has come up again and I wanted to blog about it. So I have a couple of questions... What do you consider crazy? Have you ever dealt with someone who turned out to be crazy? and How did you shake her?

I know that sometimes when you get into a long term committed relationship it crushes you when the relationship ends but usually there is not anything left to say or do to change what has happened. Most people walk away (sometimes with a broken heart) and eventually get over all the questions that they did not get a chance to ask because they usually realize that they got over her without answers. But there are those people that cannot get over the ending of the relationship. They cannot get the hint that the relationship is over and there is nothing that they could have done to salvage it.

These people sometimes become obsessed, stalker-ish, and dangerous. This is never a good look for them but to me it seems like they are too obsessed with the situation at hand that they do not realize the what they are doing. (At least you hope they do not realize what they are doing.)

I think a crazy person is:
1) Someone who won't let go
2) She has problems listening to you (not just hearing)
3) Quick tempered
4) Someone who persistantly follows your every move on social networking sites
5) When you have a feeling that they may show up at your home, work, school, or any location and cause a scene... MAJOR PROBLEM!

You usually do not get exposed to the crazy side in the beginning of a relationship but sometimes you just may ignore it or not even realize the signs of crazy.

Twice I was oblivious to the crazy signs. How? you might ask... I have no idea how I missed it but I did... or did I? Some people say that there are signs early on but not for everyone is there? At least I do not think everyone has the signs but that just maybe me being bias.

Crazy Girls Rant I

So today I went in the office and there was something wrong with one of my co workers. I asked and asked but she did not want to tell me what was wrong. I asked the administrative assistant and she told me she was not going to tell me. Finally I guessed what happened and it had to do with her recent break ups (yes plural). She actually had a main squeeze girlfriend (MS)= living with her and a less needy girlfriend (LN)=not living with her girlfriend. She broke up with both of them within the span of 3 days. A couple of days later her mirrors...broken and tires... flat on her car. She was PISSED.

I knew that MS was getting on her nerves cause she used to complain to me about how she is sweet but talks about herself too much, likes drama, and how it is hard for her to do anything without MS ie. staying home sleeping, chilling around the house, dressing herself... She told me MS just liked to do for her and she could not be mad at her for it but at times it was excessive. I really did not here too much about LN but I knew that she did talk to her while she was at work.

Have you ever had a crazy girl incident?

When I heard this all I could think about is Shane's crazy girl from the L Word. Now I always thought that that girl shoud have known what she was getting herself into when she started messing with Shane. Most everyone that went to the planet has slept with Shane. But crazy girl made it a point to try and ruin Shane's life.

I understand that if you want more from a one or two night stand... Find a girlfriend and tell her that this is what you want. But do not go psycho on your one night stand or even a partner where the relationship did not work out. PLEASE ladies use your words not vandalizm or messing up someone's name to make yourself feel better.

It is okay to be upset and angry but life really does go on and get better... that person was clearly not for you. At any rate just my little half rant